There are two sides to life...
One is brilliant, where you do brilliant things, and have brilliant moments with other brilliant people. You make love and it works out or you feel invincible or free or joyful.
The other is terrible, where you do terrible things, and have terrible moments with other terrible people. You lose love and it does not work out or you feel vulnerable or enslaved or sad.
And every day we walk on a tightrope unsure which side we will fall on, never really making it across.